You've tired your best, but the kids are often irresponsible, entitled, rude, lazy, and unkind. You think it's probably your fault, and the guilt and shame feel awful.
after asking nice the first ten times for your son to get off his phone. You just can’t take it anymore. He has no impulse control. I'm scared what this could turn into to. You definitely didn't become a mom to feel discouraged because it takes two hours to get the kids to bed, and it's exhausting. You dread bedtime, but wish you loved it.
because a "simple" conversation with your teenager about the chores not getting done turned into a fight. You hate it when there are hard feelings between you two.
You LOVE connecting with your kiddos at bedtime! You turn on music while they brush their teeth, read stories with them, and sing to them before turning off the lights. Bedtime used to be a battle, but now you actually look forward to it.
Your daughter comes to you when she’s struggling with college and boyfriend issues. She wants your help and advice. After a few hours of talking she says, “Mom thanks for always being there for me."
You walk into a messy kitchen (that the kid's promised to clean up), and instead of flipping out when you see the mess, you know exactly what to do…ten minutes later you're sitting in the clean kitchen enjoying a game of UNO with the kids.
I'm also including TWO awesome bonuses!
The STEAR Model: A framework for solving any parenting problem ($199 Value)
The STEAR Model Worksheets: Putting it into action ($27 Value)
Cultivate Course ($595 Value)
Cultivate Book ($99 Value)
Weekly LIVE Coaching Calls ($4995 Value)
Private FB Group ($499 Value)
- I'll send an email with login instructions.
- You can access it on your phone or computer.
- Within 10 minutes, I'll be teaching you the secret to less yelling, more listening, and how to have heck of a lot more fun with your kiddos!
- You can get started right away, and go as fast or slow as you'd like!
You'll likely be blown away when you first realize why correction-based parenting is so prevalent in our society today. You'll also inspect your thinking and beliefs about parenting that will change everything for you.
You’ll feel amazing when you have your first experience, with what used to be a triggery situation for you, but now has been completely reframed and doesn't end in an ounce of frustration.
WHEN YOUR KIDS START NOTICING
Your kids will start to see a difference and they won’t know what’s going on. Slowly but surely you'll see evidence in their eyes that this new approach is sinking in and making a difference.
Over time, you’ll start to feel your confidence growing because you’re having more and more experiences with true connection with your kids. Your increased confidence and peace as a mom will renew your energy and excitement for life
AS YOU KEEP IMPLEMENTING
WHEN YOU START APPLYING
WHEN YOU START LEARNING
Fabulous question. I figured you might be wondering so here's the answer. TRIBE is a LIVE monthly membership program. Think of Tribe like a gym membership for your parenting...but with this membership, you get access to the gym and A PERSONAL TRAINER. Instead of charging thousands of dollars and giving you access to everything for a set period of time, I created Tribe as a LIVE monthly program because I believe it will serve you best. Of course, there is no long-term commitment with Tribe. If you need to stop Tribe at any time just email us.
My husband and I tried many other parenting approaches as we raised our 6 kids. I also have many coaching clients who have tried a lot of different approaches. From my experience, behavior and correction-based parenting can create short-term compliance, but many approaches lead to a higher level of disconnection and don't create lasting results. My parenting method is based in developmental psychology and prioritizes connection as the key tool for helping to impact the behavior of your children. It will teach you how to take the situations that cause you pain today and use them to create a deeper connection with your child.
The frameworks I teach you in this course will be life-changing for you even if you aren't getting the support you would like from others around you.
While I always love seeing dads jumping in to learn and apply these principles, part of my focus for this course is on helping moms recognize how much power and capability they have on their own.
I grew up in Arizona, married my high school sweetheart at 20, had my first baby at 22, and ended up having 6 kiddos (3 girls and 3 boys) in 8 years.I'm a recovering perfectionist, who used to wish I could be happy all the time. Now I realize that there is so much beauty in feeling all our emotions. I’ve come to understand that connection NOT correction is the most powerful tool I have as a parent. And LOVE developmental psychology. I’m grateful for my messy journey and love helping other moms love their life and implement a connection based parenting approach. I’ve created this offer to show you a solution to parenting that takes the need for yelling, power-struggles, and ultimatums out of the equation. It’s changed my life, thousands of others, and it can change your life too. If you go all in on connective parenting, you'll start noticing shifts happening!
I’m so glad you’re here!! Before I tell you about me, let me start off by saying you are amazing!! My name is Andee creator of the Connect Method of parenting. Despite reading and learning everything I could about parenting, during the first 8 years of being a parent, I felt lost, alone, and like I was failing at parenting. It has become my mission to help other moms learn what I was missing! There is a better way to parent, where discipline isn't the essence of parenting. I’m a mom, wife, sister, daughter, retired nurse, yoga instructor, life coach, and wanna be dancer. :)
Fabulous question. I figured you might be wondering so here's the answer. TRIBE is a LIVE monthly membership program. Think of Tribe like a gym membership for your parenting...but with this membership, you get access to the gym and A PERSONAL TRAINER. Instead of charging thousands of dollars and giving you access to everything for a set period of time, I created Tribe as a LIVE monthly program because I believe it will serve you best. Of course, there is no long-term commitment with Tribe. If you need to stop Tribe at any time just email us.
My husband and I tried many other parenting approaches as we raised our 6 kids. I also have many coaching clients who have tried a lot of different approaches. From my experience, behavior and correction-based parenting can create short-term compliance, but many approaches lead to a higher level of disconnection and don't create lasting results. My parenting method is based in developmental psychology and prioritizes connection as the key tool for helping to impact the behavior of your children. It will teach you how to take the situations that cause you pain today and use them to create a deeper connection with your child.
The frameworks I teach you in this course will be life-changing for you even if you aren't getting the support you would like from others around you.
While I always love seeing dads jumping in to learn and apply these principles, part of my focus for this course is on helping moms recognize how much power and capability they have on their own.
- Rebecca B
"Working with Andee has been the most freeing work I have ever done. She has taken every parenting book I have ever read and created a program loaded with simple steps and tools that are usable and doable. It's fun and it works! "
- Mary Jordon
I have tried countless programs over the years and while many have worked for a short period of time, connection is the one that has made the longest lasting impact. I can always gage how well I'm doing by implementing connection based on my son's behavior. I am so impressed with Andee's core lessons and feel they really help keep me focused. Connection can be more difficult but the outcome is worth the energy.
It's a simple, quick way for you to have an experience with Connective Parenting that will give you hope and courage.
BUT YOU NEED TO TAKE THE FIRST STEP.
If you're like most moms, you've probably got 9 plates spinning at this very moment. The temptation is probably just to keep plugging away and see if anything changes.
I want to invite you to make today be the first day of a new life for you as a mom and for your family.
To help make it a no-brainer to take action today, I have a few really exciting things that I think you'll love.
For many years, I had an eery question stuck in the back of my mind:
What if I don't figure this out until it's too late?
What if my kids grow up and leave my house and I haven't created the connection I want that will last a lifetime?
Have you ever thought that?
Well, I'm here to tell you that you absolutely can figure this out, and you can make very fast progress, if you're committed. And I'm here to help.
In fact, that's the whole reason I created this course.
These worksheets help you implement what you have learned from about the STEAR model into your everyday life!
The STEAR Model helps you unlock your natural super power to stay connect with your kids no matter what. You’ll finally have a tool that uncovers what’s been getting in the way!
I also host weekly LIVE coaching calls for Tribe members. It’s my favorite part of Tribe because it’s where we get real and work on your specific issues.
Because teaching and learning is such an important part of TML Tribe, I invested to create my own app (avail on iPhone and Android) where I deliver all of the training to you.
This is a 120-page companion to the Cultivate course. Each video in the course has a corresponding section in the Cultivate Book. You'll use it to keep notes, fill out the worksheets and do the exercises.
Every new Tribe member starts out with an initial course called Cultivate where I take you by the hand and gently help you implement the Connect Method™.
When you sign up, you'll get an email and text message with instructions for how to download the Tribe app (works on iPhone and Android phones), along with the password you'll use to log in. The Cultivate course will be unlocked immediately and you can start listening/watching right away. You'll also receive notices about our next weekly live coaching call and how to join the FB group.
Fabulous question. I figured you might be wondering so here's the answer. TRIBE is a LIVE monthly membership program. Instead of charging thousands of dollars and giving you access to everything for a set period of time, I created Tribe as a LIVE monthly program because I believe it will serve you best. Of course, there is no long-term commitment with Tribe. If you need to stop Tribe at any time just email us.
My husband and I tried many other parenting approaches as we raised our 6 kids. I also have many coaching clients who have tried a lot of different approaches. From my experience, behavior and correction-based parenting can create short-term compliance, but many approaches lead to a higher level of disconnection and don't create lasting results. My parenting method is based in developmental psychology and prioritizes connection as the key tool for helping to impact the behavior of your children. It will teach you how to take the situations that cause you pain today and use them to create a deeper connection with your child.
If you find yourself losing your temper and yelling often, you're going to love the "Why Is This Happening?" mini course.
In this course I teach you the most amazing tool so you can see what is behind your frustration and uncontrolled temper. I also give you a model you can use to understand and intentionally change your reactions.
My husband and I tried many other parenting approaches as we raised our 6 kids. I also have many coaching clients who have tried a lot of different approaches. From my experience, behavior and correction-based parenting can create short-term compliance, but many approaches lead to a higher level of disconnection and don't create lasting results. My parenting method is based in developmental psychology and prioritizes connection as the key tool for helping to impact the behavior of your children. It will teach you how to take the situations that cause you pain today and use them to create a deeper connection with your child.